I didn’t want to either

Transforming Therapy from Daunting to Doable

an insider's look at what actually happens in therapy, from someone who's sat on both sides of the room.

Whether you're ready to start therapy or simply curious about the process, this book meets you where you are.

What Readers Are Saying

This book makes starting therapy feel like an act of courage, not weakness-a must-read for anyone contemplating taking the next step in their self-growth journey.
— Kristen Taylor, M.A, LMFT
If you have to take a difficult journey, there’s great comfort in travelling with someone who’s been there before. For those considering therapy, Cody Qureshi is ready to be that guide with expertise, empathy, and remarkable pragmatism.
— Barbara Marston, MD
As an executive coach who works with everyone from early career professionals to CEOs, I highly recommend I Didn’t Want to Either-it’s a powerful tool for assessing where you are in your life, career or relationships.
— Pamela Brown, Executive Coach & Adjunct Professor

Why I Didn’t want to either is for you

A therapist who didn't want therapy either shows you exactly what to expect — before, between, or outside of sessions.

Starting therapy is confusing and, for most people, scary. The openness required, the fear of judgment, the uncertainty of what you'll uncover—these concerns keep people feeling stuck even when they’re open to help. Cody Qureshi knows this firsthand as a therapist, not only from her practice but as a once-skeptical client herself.

I Didn’t Want to Either offers an insider's look at what actually happens in therapy, from someone who's sat on both sides of the room. Written in her warm, conversational voice with honest explanations of how therapists think, this book follows the same process therapists use with new clients, offering valuable exercises and groundwork on:

  • Building community when you feel isolated

  • Setting boundaries without guilt

  • Understanding your stress before it overwhelms you

  • Reframing your negative thoughts and practicing gratitude


Each chapter helps you understand yourself better to walk into your first session feeling prepared, or to simply improve your mental health if you’re not ready to commit to therapy. And for new therapists, it even offers insight into the client experience and practical approaches to first sessions.

Whether you're ready to start therapy or simply curious about the process, this book meets you where you are.

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